The Heart Formula® Program - Aneta Mildiani

Master The Art of Love!

The Heart Formula®

Program

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Love Better!

Are you ready to rebuild your relationship and create the kind of emotional bond that feels steady, passionate and secure? The HEART Formula® is a premium, one-on-one online coaching program for women who want to stop repeating painful cycles and finally experience a relationship that feels safe and deeply connected.

This is not another set of generic tips about communication. The HEART Formula® is a structured, evidence-based framework that combines relationship psychology, behavioral coaching, emotional intelligence and strategic planning. It is designed to produce measurable, lasting results. Studies in relationship science confirm that couples who actively develop emotional literacy and structured communication practices are up to 67% more likely to maintain long-term satisfaction. That is the foundation of this method.

The program runs for 15 weeks and is built around five essential pillars of lasting love: Harmony, Empathy, Affection, Respect and Trust.

Each element targets a specific layer of relationship stability. Harmony restores emotional balance. Empathy rebuilds understanding. Affection rekindles closeness. Respect redefines partnership dynamics. Trust secures the long-term bond.

Every week deepens the previous one, guiding you through a full transformation that reshapes both your perception and behavior in love.

Each session lasts about 90 minutes and includes individualized coaching, guided emotional work and carefully designed assignments to integrate new habits into your daily interactions. You will learn how to de-escalate conflict within minutes, communicate without blame, and create emotional safety that naturally leads to intimacy. You will understand why emotional distance forms, how to reverse it and how to make your partner feel drawn back into connection without pressure or games.

The results are concrete and trackable. Clients who completed The HEART Formula® report a significant increase in emotional stability, better communication and renewed attraction within the first month. Many have rebuilt broken trust, reignited passion and created relationships that feel more mature, grounded and fulfilling than before. These outcomes are not based on chance but on tested psychological mechanisms such as reinforcement theory, attachment repair and cognitive reframing.


For women who need rapid transformation and are ready for intensive work, I offer an accelerated version of the program – a condensed 5-session intensive path where we cover three weeks’ worth of material in each session. This option is fast-paced, highly demanding and only for women fully committed to deep, immediate change.


The HEART Formula® is designed for women who are currently in relationships and want to overcome struggles, strengthen their bond, or create the foundation for long-term commitment. However, it is not suitable for individuals who are in abusive relationships where safety must come first, nor for those who are currently single. If you are single, I recommend my Love & Relationship Consultation sessions to prepare you for the healthy, fulfilling relationship you deserve in the future.

Who Is The HEART Formula® Program For?

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Women in relationships who feel emotionally disconnected and want to rebuild intimacy, trust, and passion

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Those struggling with recurring conflicts, uncertainty, or commitment issues and need a clear, structured approach to creating long-term harmony

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Women in stable relationships who want to strengthen their bond and move toward lasting commitment

What Exactly Can You Gain?

  • Understanding the exact steps to rebuild trust after betrayal or conflict
  • Discovering how to align your values and priorities for lasting harmony
  • Mastering the art of emotional communication to avoid recurring arguments
  • Learning advanced strategies to restore intimacy and rekindle passion
  • Gaining tools to eliminate destructive patterns in your relationship
  • Transforming conflicts into opportunities for growth and connection
  • Developing deep empathy to understand your partner’s needs
  • Unlocking the secrets to showing affection in ways your partner craves
  • Breaking down emotional walls that have kept you distant
  • Creating rituals of connection that strengthen your bond daily
  • Identifying and addressing the unspoken issues holding you back
  • Learning how to set firm boundaries without alienating your partner
  • Building a relationship where both partners feel seen and valued
  • Gaining strategies to navigate even the most difficult conversations
  • Establishing emotional safety that fosters trust and vulnerability
  • Rediscovering the joy and excitement of your relationship
  • Becoming the partner your significant other dreams of
  • Learning how to stop fights before they escalate
  • Building a shared vision for a future you both believe in
  • Gaining tools to reignite lost affection in long-term relationships
  • Developing confidence in your ability to create change
  • Identifying and eliminating toxic habits undermining your connection
  • Helping your partner feel fully understood and appreciated
  • Understanding what truly makes your relationship thrive
  • Restoring the respect that creates a foundation for everything else
  • Reconnecting with your partner on a deeper emotional level
  • Overcoming fears of vulnerability and opening up to love
  • Learning the skills to rebuild after emotional or physical distance
  • Becoming the couple that proves love can overcome anything

Investment Details

Regular Track

15 sessions, 60 min. each

7 500 USD

Exclusive Fast Track

5 sessions, 120 min. each

9 500 USD

See Case Studies!

Success stories of those who trusted me

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Case Study Arielle

Goal

To reclaim emotional presence and influence in a marriage overshadowed by external control and silent resentment.

Effect

Arielle restored sense of value, voice, and feminine energy, transforming a passive marriage into a balanced, emotionally engaged partnership.

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Case Study Naomi

Goal

To reclaim emotional closeness, rebuilding communication, and restoring personal value within a disconnected marriage.

Effect

Naomi rebuilt emotional connection with her husband and created a healthier, more balanced dynamic rooted in truth and respect.

Aneta Mildiani's client testimonial, a success story from her coaching program for women.

Case Study Solange

Goal

To help Solange rediscover her emotional identity and rebuild intimacy in a long-term marriage that had slowly lost its depth.

Effect

We created an emotionally renewed marriage, where Solange feels seen, heard, and deeply connected with herself and her husband.

FAQ

If I complete the program, what changes can it create in my day to day life?

When you finish The HEART Formula® Program, you are not walking away with “insight”, but with a whole new operating system for love, one that produces visible change where it actually matters: in your daily interactions, in your partner’s behavior and in your own emotional stability.

You’ll no longer spend evenings replaying conversations, decoding silences, or scanning for danger in a tone of voice. Your nervous system will be calmer because you will know what to do. You’ll use language that works. Not poetic declarations, but sentences that prevent escalation, pull a conversation back from the edge and make your partner listen without turning everything into a fight. You’ll know how to raise a difficult topic without sounding accusatory, how to ask for change without begging and how to set a boundary that earns respect instead of triggering punishment or withdrawal.

In practical terms, your home will feel different. Conflict will stop consuming hours, because you’ll learn how to de escalate quickly and repair cleanly. You’ll stop chasing reassurance and start creating clarity. The tension that used to sit in the room like smoke will thin out, because you’ll stop feeding the patterns that keep it alive. You’ll see fewer pointless arguments, fewer emotional explosions, fewer cold silent days. And when conflict does happen, it will end with resolution, not with damage.

Your partner will experience you differently and that is where the real leverage is. A woman who is emotionally disciplined and consistent is not easy to dismiss. When you stop reacting automatically, stop over explaining or over giving and stop tolerating disrespect, you change the rules of the relationship. Many men respond to that shift with greater engagement, more initiative and a sharper awareness that the relationship has a standard now. You’ll not be trying to “convince” anyone to value you – you’ll be living in a way that makes value obvious.

Affection will also become easier to access. Not as a performance, or a forced romantic routine, but as a natural outcome of safety and respect returning to the relationship. You will rebuild warmth after distance and know how to stop the small habits that kill attraction over time. If betrayal or trust rupture has been part of your story, you’ll finish the program with a clear repair architecture: what must be true for trust to return, what behaviors rebuild it, what boundaries protect you and what signs show real change rather than temporary remorse.

Most importantly, you’ll finish with something that is worth more than any single conversation: predictability. You’ll know how to keep the relationship from sliding back into old chaos because you’ll have a repeatable method.

That is why this is a premium program. You are not getting just fifteen sessions. You are preparing to stop living in a relationship that drains your health.

Is The HEART Formula® Program for single women, or only for women in relationships?

I designed The HEART Formula® primarily for women who are currently in a relationship and want to improve it in a real, structured way. The entire framework is built around working with a live dynamic, meaning what happens between you and your partner day to day, how you communicate, how you repair conflict, how you rebuild closeness and how you strengthen trust and respect over time.

If you are single, this is usually not the first service I recommend. A single woman typically benefits more from the Love & Relationship Consultations, because that format is designed to help you build your strategy, standards and selection process before you commit your heart to the wrong person again.

That said, there is one exception. If you are single and you are very conscious about why you want this program and you are genuinely ready to do intensive work, it can still be valuable. In that case, the focus becomes your patterns, your emotional reflexes, your attachment dynamics and the habits that shape who you choose and how you bond. It becomes preparation for a better relationship, built from the inside out.

There is also another important point that many women appreciate. Even when you start the program in a relationship, it is possible that through the work you realize that this is not a relationship you should remain in. Not every relationship is worth repairing, because lasting change ultimately requires two people. If that becomes clear during the process, we don’t panic and we don’t throw away the work. We continue. The program shifts into a different form of strength: your internal rebuilding, setting boundaries, and preparation for a future relationship that matches your standards and values. You learn what patterns led you into wrong relationship, how to break them and how to choose differently next time, so you never repeat the same story in a new face.

In other words, this program is designed for relationships, but it’s also designed to protect you. It’s built to help you create a mature, secure bond when that bond is possible and to help you leave with stronger future possibilities when it’s not.

How is the program structured across the 15 weeks, and why does the order of the pillars matter?

The order is not decorative. It’s architecture.

Harmony comes first because emotional balance is the foundation of everything else. Without it, you cannot communicate cleanly, repair conflict and rebuild intimacy without collapsing into anxiety or resentment.

Empathy follows because understanding is what stops two people from living in parallel realities.

Affection is then rebuilt on that safety, so closeness returns without pressure.

Respect is restored as the governing dynamic, so boundaries and roles become clear and the relationship stops feeling unstable.

Trust is secured last because trust is not a speech, it is a pattern that becomes believable only after the earlier layers are stable.

This is how the method avoids temporary improvements and aims for a new baseline.

How does the booking process work, step by step?

You click FILL OUT AN APPLICATION and complete the application form. The form is fully confidential and only I have access to it. Your answers help me evaluate whether I can genuinely help you with what you want, so you do not waste time or money on the wrong kind of support. It also gives me essential context, so when we meet we start strong and don’t spend your paid time on basics.

If I review your application and I believe I’m not the right support for your situation, I’ll recommend a more suitable type of consultation or guide you toward the next best step, so you still leave with direction rather than a dead end.

If I see that I can help you, I or my consultant will contact you by email or phone within forty eight hours to arrange a date and time of the first session that fits your schedule. You then receive a payment link and have eight hours to complete payment for the full program. Once payment is received, your booking is confirmed and your session is secured.

How do the sessions work and how do we meet?

Our sessions are held online, either on Zoom or Google Meet. On the each day of your session, you will receive the meeting link no later than one hour before we begin and often earlier. At your scheduled time, you simply click the link and join the video call. No complicated setup, no guessing, no extra steps.

Is everything I share confidential?

Yes. Everything you tell me is confidential. I treat your story with discretion and respect and I don’t disclose your information to third parties. There is only one narrow exception: if I believe there is a real risk of serious harm to you or to someone else, I may be required to take protective action. In rare situations, this can include contacting appropriate emergency services. This is not something you need to fear in normal emotional pain, tears, or a difficult moment.

Does my partner have to participate in the program, or is it only for me?

Your partner doesn’t attend the sessions. This is not couples therapy and it is not a group process. I work with you, privately, one on one. Every session is designed around your situation, your responses, your standards and the choices you make inside the relationship.

At the same time, it’s important to understand what creates the strongest results. Even though your partner is not on the calls, the relationship itself is the arena where the work is applied. You’ll receive practices and assignments that are meant to be used in real life, and some of them are far more effective when your partner is aware of the process and open to improvement. In the healthiest cases, a partner knows you are doing the program and supports the idea of change, because it becomes easier to practice new communication, build new habits and create a shared rhythm of repair and closeness.

If your partner is hesitant at first, that does not automatically disqualify you. Resistance is common when people fear blame, fear conflict, or fear being “analyzed.” Part of our work will be showing you how to communicate the purpose of the program in a way that lowers defensiveness and increases cooperation. Step by step, we create the conditions in which a willing partner begins to participate naturally, even without ever joining a single session.

However, willingness matters. If you implement the tools, communicate clearly and invite change with maturity, and your partner still refuses every form of repair or growth, that is not a small detail. It becomes valuable information about the prognosis of the relationship. Lasting repair ultimately requires two people. This program will help you see reality with clean eyes, without panic and without self betrayal.

If you prefer to keep the program private from your partner, you can. But when secrecy is necessary, it usually signals that the situation is more serious than it looks on the surface. It does not mean the work is impossible. It simply means we will approach it with greater care. We will work through the deep reasons for that secrecy step by step.

Is this program for me if I feel emotionally disconnected, but we are still together and I don’t want to lose him?

Yes. This program is designed for women who are still in the relationship and want to rebuild emotional closeness, restore stability and bring the bond back to a place that feels secure, warm, and alive. We don’t circle the past for months. We work with what can be changed now, and we build new patterns that make connection more likely to return.

Will the program help me if we argue constantly, then make up, then repeat the same fight again and again?

Repeating conflict is rarely about the topic. It is about the pattern. We identify the escalation sequence, remove the triggers that create automatic explosions and replace them with structured communication that reduces damage and increases respect. You learn how to de escalate quickly, how to speak without blame and how to lead conversations toward resolution instead of collapse.

Is this for me if there was betrayal, broken trust, or a serious breach of loyalty?

Yes, as long as the relationship is not dangerous and you are not being harmed. Rebuilding trust requires structure, not hope. We work on boundaries, accountability, repair language and consistent behaviors that rebuild safety over time. You’ll also learn how to stop becoming your own enemy through spiraling, checking and emotional overreach.

What if I am afraid of being judged, because my relationship feels messy or embarrassing?

You’ll never be shamed by me. I’m not interested in moral lectures. I’m interested in outcomes and in protecting your dignity. You’ll be treated with respect and you’ll receive direct guidance that helps you regain self control and emotional clarity.

How intense is the work between sessions? Do I need to do assignments?

Yes. This program is built on integration. Your results come from what you practice between sessions. I’ll not overload you with chaos. I will give you precise, structured assignments that build new habits step by step. The more consistently you implement, the faster you feel emotional stability, cleaner communication and a stronger bond.

How do I know whether I should choose the 15 week Regular Track or the 5 week Exclusive Fast Track?

Choose the Regular Track if you want steady integration, week by week, with time to apply changes gradually and build stable habits. Choose the Exclusive Fast Track only if you are ready for high intensity work, rapid implementation and a demanding pace that compresses weeks of material into each meeting. Fast Track is not better. It is simply faster and it requires stronger stamina and focus.

How do you measure progress inside the program?

Progress is tracked through concrete indicators such as fewer escalations, faster repair after conflict, lower anxiety during communication, more willingness to engage from your partner, greater emotional steadiness in you, and a clearer rhythm of affection and respect. The program is built on structure so we can tell whether you are moving forward, rather than guessing.

Is this for me if my partner refuses therapy or says he does not want to work on the relationship?

Often, yes. A woman changing her responses can shift the entire climate. You’ll learn how to stop feeding the dynamic that rewards avoidance and how to create conditions where seriousness becomes the natural standard. If your partner remains unwilling to meet any basic requirements of respect and commitment, you’ll see it in a way which protects your future. I’ll also help you decide if it’s a relation worth saving.

Is this program suitable if my relationship involves physical violence, threats, or serious danger?

No. Safety comes first. If there is violence, threats, or danger, coaching is not the appropriate tool. You need immediate local professional support and protective resources. I will not accept cases where safety is compromised.

Is this therapy? Do you treat mental health issues?

No. This is coaching for relationship strategy. I do not provide medical, psychiatric, or therapeutic treatment. If you need clinical care, you should work with a licensed professional locally.

Also, if I determine that what you need is clinical treatment rather than coaching, I will tell you honestly and recommend that you seek support from a licensed psychotherapist or another appropriate professional.

What is your refund policy?

All purchases are final and not refundable, including packages or programs. Please book only when you are ready to protect the time and do the work.

Each session can be rescheduled once without losing payment. Further rescheduling of the same session means it is treated as completed and forfeited. You cannot reschedule less than one week before the session. In a package or a program, you can reschedule up to thirty percent of sessions across the whole package.
If your schedule is unstable, choose a later date.

What happens if my internet is weak or something fails technically during the session?

Here is the practical protocol. If your connection drops, we attempt reconnection immediately. If we cannot reconnect within ten minutes, we switch to audio call on the number that you provided if possible. If the technical problem is on your side, the session time still runs and there is no refund, credit, or replacement date. That is why you must secure stable internet, working audio and a quiet place before we start. If the problem is on my side and we cannot continue, I reschedule the session.

Can I record the session?

Not without prior written permission. If you want to remember everything, take notes. At the end, I will summarize your action plan so you leave with clarity.

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