Marital Compatibility Assessment™ - Aneta Mildiani

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Marital Compatibility

Assessment™

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Marriage is the most serious decision of your life. It’s not just about love. You’re choosing the person who’ll shape your future, carry your failures, share house when passion fades and raise your children.

Two people can both be amazing partners for someone else and still be completely wrong for each other. That is why compatibility matters more than chemistry and why testing it before the vows is not optional but essential.

When you promise forever, you are not promising flowers and kisses, but to raise children together, to carry each other’s failures, to face bills, illnesses and temptation without running.

That is the real weight of marriage, and most couples never test if they can carry it before they say yes.

Compatibility is not about being perfect, it is about being perfect for each other.

I created Marital Compatibility Assessment™ for couples who are brave enough to face the truth before they commit.  This program is built as a structured process, not just a casual conversation. I use psychological assessments, personality and attachment style testing, compatibility frameworks, in depth interviews and guided analysis.

We measure 275 qualities in 18 areas that decide the fate of a marriage. We go into how you fight, how you love, how you carry responsibility, how you handle change, what “family” means to both of you and how your values collide or align. Nothing is left to chance. These are the talks that save marriages before they even begin.

Research shows that couples who confront these issues before the wedding cut their chances of divorce almost in half. Couples who openly discuss core issues before marriage are 31% less likely to divorce. Programs of premarital education reduce the risk of divorce by up to 50%. That means love alone does not guarantee survival, but love combined with awareness and preparation dramatically increases your chances of building a lasting marriage.

Across 2 joint sessions for both partners and 4 separate sessions for both of you, you and your partner move through the process step by step. First joint session, four fully confidential individual deep dives when you can open up, and a final assessment with a full report. And then you will hold in your hands the most powerful thing a couple can have before marriage: certainty that your love has the foundation to last, or certainty that you should walk away now instead of years later.

Marital Compatibility Assessment™ does not promise that love will conquer all. It promises the truth, so you can decide if your love should become a marriage. It is a psychological method applied to the most important decision of your life. And it gives you clarity if you are marrying not only the person you love, but the person you can truly live with.

Who Is Marital Compatibility Assessment™ For?

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Partners who love each other deeply but wonder if love is enough to survive decades together.

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Those who sense differences in values, habits or goals and want clarity before binding their lives forever.

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Couples who want certainty, not hope, when deciding if the person they love is truly the person they should marry.

What Exactly Can You Gain?

  • 2 joint sessions for both partners and 4 separate sessions for both of them covering 18 key areas and 275 qualities (15-20 hrs.)
  • 10 hours of Aneta’s-only work between sessions dedicated to scoring, comparing and interpreting the results
  • Separate fully confidential interviews for each partner to allow full honesty without pressure
  • Full interpretation and explanation of the results on the last session
  • A personalized final report delivered in an elegant eBook format, designed as a professional reference for your future
  • A definitive verdict on your level of compatibility, indicating if the relationship is strong, unsustainable, or in need of targeted work
  • Clarity on whether you and your partner are truly fit for marriage
  • An objective analysis of your personality dynamics and how they collide or support each other
  • Insight into your attachment patterns and how they shape closeness, trust and conflict
  • A clear picture of your conflict styles and how your arguments will play out in marriage
  • A values alignment map that shows where you are united and where you will always disagree
  • A compatibility check on physical expectations and long-term satisfaction
  • A family imprint scan that reveals what patterns from childhood you are repeating in your relationship
  • A financial harmony test that shows if you will cooperate or clash in building a shared life
  • A strategic overview of what can realistically be changed in your relationship and what cannot
  • Guidance in your final session to decide whether marriage is the right step or a dangerous mistake
  • The certainty of knowing if you are building a future with the right person, not gambling on hope
  • The experience of finally seeing the hidden patterns in your relationship laid out in front of you
  • Relief from the anxiety of “what if” because you will know exactly where you stand as a couple
  • The power to make the most important decision of your life with confidence instead of illusions
  • The authority to answer family, friends and yourself when asked: “Are you sure?”
  • The kind of clarity that reduces the risk of divorce by up to fifty percent as you are prepared to make the right decision
  • A clear distinction between what can be changed and what remains fixed
  • A guaranteed 10% discount on future coaching packages if you decide to continue working on your relationship
  • Professional assurance that follow-up will only be offered when the diagnostic results show realistic potential, ensuring your time and resources are never wasted

Price List

Full program

This includes 2 joint sessions online, 4 separate sessions online for each partner and full PDF raport.

9 000  USD

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FAQ

How is the program structured from beginning to the end?

You go through two joint sessions together and four separate sessions, two for each partner, held privately. The first joint meeting sets the context, aligns expectations, and begins the assessment path. The individual meetings allow complete honesty without performance or pressure. The final joint meeting is where I present the full interpretation and guide you through the meaning of your results. Between sessions, I score, compare, interpret and build your final report.

How much total time does it require, including your work behind the scenes?

Across sessions, you receive approximately fifteen to twenty hours of live work. In addition, there is significant analysis time between meetings, because the value of this service is not in talking longer, but in interpreting accurately and integrating your results into a coherent verdict and a usable report. Usually the whole process takes 6 weeks.

What will we receive at the end, and how will it be delivered?

You receive a final interpretation session and a written report delivered in an elegant eBook format. The report is designed to be kept, revisited and used as a reference. It captures your compatibility picture, your high risk points, your strengths and the areas where change is realistically possible versus areas that tend to remain stable over a lifetime.

How does the booking process work, step by step?

You click FILL OUT AN APPLICATION and complete the application form. The form is fully confidential and only I have access to it. Your answers help me evaluate whether I can genuinely help you with what you want, so you do not waste time or money on the wrong kind of support. It also gives me essential context, so when we meet we start strong and don’t spend your paid time on basics.

If I review your application and I believe I’m not the right support for your situation, I’ll recommend a more suitable type of consultation or guide you toward the next best step, so you still leave with direction rather than a dead end.

If I see that I can help you, I or my consultant will contact you by email or phone within forty eight hours to arrange a date and time of the first session that fits your schedule. You then receive a payment link and have eight hours to complete payment for the full program. Once payment is received, your booking is confirmed and your session is secured.

How does the session work and how do we meet?

Our session is held online, either on Zoom or Google Meet. On the day of your session, you will receive the meeting link no later than one hour before we begin and often earlier. At your scheduled time, you simply click the link and join the video call. No complicated setup, no guessing, no extra steps.

Will you tell us directly, whether we should marry or not?

You will receive a clear verdict on compatibility level, based on your results and your relational dynamics. It’s not a theatrical “yes or no” delivered for drama. It is a professional conclusion with reasoning. Sometimes the verdict is strong compatibility. Sometimes it’s unsustainable. Sometimes it’s viable only with specific, targeted work. The goal is not to flatter you but to protect your future.

Is Marital Compatibility Assessment™ only for couples who are not engaged yet, or can we do it even if we are already engaged and planning the wedding?

You can absolutely do it even if you are already engaged. In fact, many couples choose this assessment precisely because the engagement makes everything more serious, more public and more time sensitive. When family expectations, deposits and wedding timelines are involved, it becomes even more important to replace hope with evidence.

This assessment is not about whether you love each other enough. It’s about whether you are structurally suited for marriage, meaning daily life compatibility, values, conflict patterns, financial harmony, family expectations, intimacy expectations and long term roles. Those realities do not become kinder after the wedding. They become louder.

Doing this work during engagement is often the most responsible step a couple can take, because it gives you clear confirmation before vows, or it gives you an honest warning while you still have room to choose wisely. So yes, engaged couples are not only welcome. They are often the ideal candidates.

What if we love each other deeply, but something feels off and we cannot name it?

That is one of the best reasons to do the assessment. Couples often sense friction without understanding its source. The assessment makes the invisible visible. It shows whether the “off” feeling is a temporary stress phase, a correctable skill gap, or a structural mismatch that will keep reappearing no matter how much love exists.

What does “fully confidential” character of sessions mean between partners?

Individual sessions are private deep dives where each partner can speak freely without fear of immediate conflict. Confidential means I don’t treat the individual meeting as a stage for exposing someone. I interpret patterns, not secrets for entertainment. In the final evaluation, I present the conclusions that matter for marriage readiness and compatibility.

What if one of us is afraid to be honest because it could cause a breakup?

That fear is exactly why many couples marry the wrong person. The assessment is not designed to create a breakup, but to prevent a worse one later, with children, mortgages and years invested. The process creates a contained space for truth so you can make an adult decision before vows make the consequences heavier.

What if one partner wants this assessment and the other thinks it is unnecessary?

Then that difference becomes part of the data. A marriage requires two adults willing to face reality. If one partner resists any structured self examination, it often predicts how conflict, accountability and responsibility will look after the wedding. Sometimes skepticism softens once the process begins and the work is experienced as fair and respectful. Sometimes it does not. Either way, you learn something essential before you sign legal and moral lifetime commitments.

Is this premarital therapy or a substitute for couples therapy?

No. This is not psychotherapy and it is not a substitute for clinical treatment. It is a coaching based, assessment driven compatibility process. If clinical mental health support is required, that is a separate path. This service is about marriage readiness, relational fit and long term prognosis, not about treating disorders.

What if we discover issues that need work, do you offer a next step?

Yes, but only if the assessment shows realistic potential. Follow up is not offered as a sales reflex. It is offered only when the data indicates the relationship can be strengthened through targeted work, rather than forcing a doomed dynamic to continue.

What if, during the process, we realize marriage is not the right step right now?

Then the assessment has done its job. The most expensive mistake is not postponing a wedding. The most expensive mistake is marrying the wrong person because you were afraid to face what you already felt.

Can only one partner participate in Marital Compatibility Assessment™, or can we do it without both of us fully involved?

No. This process requires the active participation of both partners. Marital Compatibility Assessment™ is built as a couple based evaluation, and it cannot be completed honestly or professionally if only one person takes part. The entire value of the assessment lies in comparing two profiles, two attachment patterns, two value systems and two sets of expectations in real time.

That is why the structure includes joint sessions together and separate, fully private sessions for each partner. The joint sessions allow me to observe how you function as a unit, while the individual sessions allow each of you to speak with full honesty and without pressure. Without both partners present for their parts of the process, the assessment would become speculation, and that would defeat the purpose.

If one partner is unwilling to participate, it’s already meaningful information about readiness for marriage, because a serious commitment requires two adults willing to face reality together. In such a case, I may recommend a different service, but Marital Compatibility Assessment™ itself is designed for two engaged participants, not one.

What is your refund policy?

All purchases are final and not refundable. Please book only when you are ready to protect the time and do the work.

Each session can be rescheduled once without losing payment. Further rescheduling of the same session means it is treated as completed and forfeited. If rescheduling is requested less than one week before the session, another full payment is required. In a package, you can reschedule up to thirty percent of sessions across the whole package.

Cancellation results in a loss of the paid amount. If your schedule is unstable, choose a later date.

What happens if my internet is weak or something fails technically during the session?

Here is the practical protocol. If your connection drops, we attempt reconnection immediately. If we cannot reconnect within ten minutes, we switch to audio call on the number that you provided if possible. If the technical problem is on your side, the session time still runs and there is no refund, credit, or replacement date. That is why you must secure stable internet, working audio and a quiet place before we start. If the problem is on my side and we cannot continue, I reschedule the session.

If my partner withdraws during the process, will we receive a refund for the unused part of the program?

No. Refunds are not provided for any unused portion if the process has begun. This assessment is a bundled, time intensive service that includes not only live sessions, but also substantial analysis and scoring work completed between meetings. Once we start, that work is already underway, regardless of whether both partners choose to continue.

If one partner stops participating, the final report cannot deliver the same level of certainty. It will inevitably contain gaps, unknowns and reduced confidence in conclusions, because I’ll not invent data that was never provided. In that situation, I can still interpret what has been gathered and I can still provide professional observations based on the information available, but the report will not have the same completeness or informative power as a fully completed assessment with both partners engaged.

For that reason, this program should be entered as a deliberate, shared decision. If you suspect your partner may withdraw, it is wiser to address that risk before booking rather than discovering it halfway through the process.

Can I record the session?

Not without prior written permission. If you want to remember everything, take notes. At the end, I will summarize your action plan so you leave with clarity.

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