Case Study Jade - Aneta Mildiani

Case Study

Jade

When dating apps turned from exciting to discouraging, Jade realized a simple bio update wasn’t enough. This case study shows how she went from being ignored online to building a profile that reflected her true appeal.


Each case study presented here is based on a real client experience and shared with their explicit approval.

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Jade's Story

Jade had never struggled with dating before. She was the woman who walked into a room and turned heads effortlessly. But after a painful breakup, something shifted. Dating apps, which had once felt exciting, became a source of frustration.

The men she used to attract with ease now seemed uninterested. Her inbox was painfully quiet, and the few matches she did get weren’t men she saw herself with. Then she made a life-changing decision and signed up for my Digital Profile Makeover™.

At first, she thought she just needed a better bio and some new pictures, but from our first session, it was clear the problem ran deeper. Her entire approach to online attraction needed a reset, and together, we built a strategy to make her stand out and reclaim her power in the digital dating world.

Goals

Rebuilding Jade’s online presence to reflect the confidence and energy she had always naturally exuded in real life.

Redesigning Jade's dating profile to project high-value positioning and attract men who aligned with her standards.

Rebuilding Jade’s online presence to reflect the confidence and energy she had always naturally exuded in real life. Redesigning Jade's dating profile to project high-value positioning and attract men who aligned with her standards. Teaching Jade strategic engagement techniques to ensure that men pursued her instead of her feeling like she had to work for their attention.

Scope of Work

  1. Conducting a psychological audit of Jade’s dating profile to pinpoint how it was unknowingly repelling the right men.
  2. Selecting new photos that aligned with Jade’s digital brand, ensuring she projected confidence, approachability, and depth.
  3. Crafting a bio that created curiosity and emotional investment, instead of blending into the crowd.
  4. Teaching Jade high-value engagement techniques that positioned her as someone to be pursued, rather than chasing validation.
  5. Identifying which dating apps best fit Jade’s personality and goals, maximizing her chances of meeting the right type of men.
  6. Implementing social proof strategies that subtly increased desirability through online and offline channels.
  7. Creating a system for filtering and responding to matches, ensuring Jade spent time only on meaningful connections.
  8. Delivering a long-term dating strategy so Jade will never felt stuck or lost in the dating process.
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Conducting an audit of Jade's profile

Jade’s dating profile wasn’t bad. It was just completely misaligned with the energy she naturally radiated in person. Her photos were attractive, but they lacked warmth and personality. Her bio, though polished, didn’t create an emotional spark, so she blended in with thousands of other women on the apps.

Her profile came across as too neutral, lacking the intrigue and emotional pull that makes a woman stand out online. The wording in her bio suggested she was easygoing and open to “seeing where things go,” rather than clearly signaling that she valued high-effort, intentional relationships.

Instead of passively blending in, we needed to reshape her digital presence so that she radiated confidence, selectiveness, and depth – qualities that would naturally filter for emotionally available, relationship-minded men.

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Selecting photos aligning with Jade's digital brand

Jade’s photos were professionally taken and visually appealing, but they lacked warmth and personality. Some images looked too polished, making her seem distant and overly curated. Others, while casual, didn’t capture the vibrant, charismatic energy she naturally had in person.

We strategically selected images that balanced approachability and high-value positioning. We also incorporated visual cues, such as outfits and backgrounds that created an air of exclusivity and intrigue.

Once these new photos were uploaded, her match rate significantly increased, and the type of men reaching out to her shifted. She wasn’t just getting more messages. She started getting attention from men who put in real effort.

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Crafting a bio that created emotional investment

Jade’s bio was polite, well-written, and… forgettable. It was too formal, lacking the energy and charm she naturally had in conversation. It listed her interests, a few fun facts, and a lighthearted tagline, but it didn’t evoke any emotional reaction.

We rewrote her bio to invite meaningful conversations. Instead of a traditional format, we used storytelling and psychological hooks, leaving small gaps that made men feel compelled to reach out.

After implementing this new bio, Jade noticed a dramatic shift in how men approached her. Instead of generic openers, she started receiving thoughtful, engaging messages, proving that the right words could completely change the quality of interaction.

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Teaching Jade high-value engagement techniques

Jade had unknowingly been too reactive in her conversations. She mirrored men’s energy instead of setting the tone. If a guy was slow to respond, she hesitated. If someone sent a basic message, she answered politely instead of steering the conversation into a deeper exchange.

We introduced high-value engagement techniques, showing her how to create emotional investment from the first message. She learned how to use playful push-pull dynamics, open loops and curiosity triggers to make men work for her attention.

In the result, instead of fizzling out after a few messages, her conversations became dynamic, exciting, and full of momentum, leading to dates with men who genuinely pursued her.

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Implementing social proof strategies

Jade didn’t realize that her online presence outside of dating apps was shaping men’s perception of her. Many men research potential matches on social media before deciding to pursue something serious. Her online brand wasn’t strategically positioned to increase her desirability.

We refined her digital presence by restructuring how she presented herself on social platforms. We selected triggers that emphasized a balance between confidence and approachability, adjusted captions to create intrigue, and ensured that the version of her online felt consistent with her dating profile. With these changes, men started seeing her as someone worth pursuing, not just another pretty face on an app.

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Creating a system for filtering and responding

Jade had been wasting too much time on the wrong men. She engaged in conversations that lacked potential, replied out of politeness and continued interacting with men who weren’t showing clear intent.

I introduced a structured filtering system, helping her identify red flags within the first few exchanges. She learned how to use conversational tests to gauge a man’s effort level and ability to invest. Instead of engaging in back-and-forth exchanges that went nowhere, she eliminated low-value interactions, freeing her time for matches that aligned with her goals.

This shifted the balance of power. She was no longer just reacting to men, but selecting them, ensuring her time and energy were only spent on those who truly deserved it.

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Shifting Jade's texting and messaging style

Jade’s messaging approach was neutral and predictable, making her easy to overlook in a world where men are flooded with matches. She was polite, engaging, and friendly, but the way she communicated didn’t create emotional hooks or deepen attraction. Conversations felt like interviews, with men responding out of convenience rather than excitement.

We restructured her texting style, incorporating emotional pacing and selective responses. She also learned how to make interactions feel playful and engaging rather than boring.

With these adjustments, men became far more invested, actively working to impress her and escalate things to an in-person date. She no longer had to wonder whether a man was interested, because it was obvious.

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Delivering a long-term dating strategy

Jade’s transformation wasn’t just about fixing her profile. It was about ensuring she had a sustainable approach to dating that kept working for her long-term.

We built a structured long-term dating strategy that ensured she could adapt, refine, and maintain her success. She planed to maintain intrigue and high-value positioning even after meeting someone. This approach gave her complete clarity and control, so she would never feel lost in the process again.

By the time we finished working together, Jade didn’t just have a great profile, but had a full strategy that allowed her to confidently navigate online dating with ease, ensuring she consistently attracted the right kind of men without frustration or wasted effort and soon she reached me with feedback – she’s found perfect man, who is seriously involved in relationship with her.

Results

Jade completely rebranded her digital presence, ensuring her profile reflected her true personality and confidence.

Jade went from feeling invisible to being pursued, attracting a higher volume of genuine, high-quality matches.

Jade successfully entered an exciting new relationship, proving that the right approach to online dating can lead to real, meaningful connections.

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Jade’s Testimonial

„After my breakup I felt invisible on the apps, but Aneta showed me that my profile was holding me back and rebuilt it from the ground up. Within weeks I was matching with the kind of men I actually wanted, and now I am happily dating someone I would never have met otherwise.”

Jade

Fremont, NE, USA

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