My Way to Becoming a Relationship Coach

Before I became a relationship coach for women, my professional life looked entirely different. I was deeply immersed in the world of female entrepreneurship. I was a business trainer, an expert in change and strategy development. My journey began with aesthetic clinics in Cracow, Wroclaw and Warsaw in Poland. I built them from the ground up, refining every detail, from marketing strategies to impeccable customer service. The results exceeded expectations. My businesses grew rapidly, attracting clients and gaining a solid reputation.

Why women entrepreneurs seek guidance on success and balance?

Over time, more and more people in the industry started asking me about the secret to my success. “How did you start?”, “What did you do differently than others?”, “How do you build something from scratch that truly works?” These questions became so frequent that I had no choice and I started offering business consultations. At first, they were one-on-one, then I expanded into larger training sessions and workshops for beauty entrepreneurs.

Eventually, I also worked with owners of flower shops, pet salons, event planning businesses, and many other female-led ventures. I worked with women who dreamed of running their own companies but struggled with finding a way how to balance career and personal life.

How coaching skills transformed my way of helping women grow?

I wanted to do it right. I learned firsthand what it takes to build a successful business as a woman – how to navigate a male-dominated industry, how to market yourself effectively, and how to develop a brand that not only brings financial success but also aligns with personal values.

But I knew that my business experience was one thing, but effectively sharing knowledge was a completely different skill. So, I completed coaching studies and later a pedagogical course to master the art of teaching. I designed a comprehensive, meticulously structured training programs. The women who attended my courses were thrilled. They knew how to transform their businesses, how to scale, how to solve complex issues. And yet… something was holding them back from taking action.

I started noticing this pattern more and more often. They had the knowledge. They had a plan. They had a strategy. And yet, they weren’t implementing it.
What was holding these women back?

For many of my students, business challenges were not the real issue. There was something deeper, something much more powerful that kept them from fully focusing on professional growth. At first, I thought the problem was purely strategic. Maybe they needed better marketing plans? A stronger business model? But the more I worked with them, the clearer it became what was causing the problem.

Their personal lives.

How personal life shapes professional success?

Some women had partners who discouraged them from growing their businesses, subtly making them feel guilty for wanting more. Others were consumed by the search for love, feeling that success wouldn’t be as fulfilling without a partner to share it with. There were also women who, after having children, found themselves shouldering nearly all parenting responsibilities alone, leaving no room for professional development. Many struggled with imposter syndrome, questioning whether they were “good enough” to build something great.

Mindset, guilt and imposter syndrome in female entrepreneurs

The real issue was not business skills, but mindset, relationships and self-worth.
No matter how modern or independent they aspired to be, one thing remained constant: their emotions, relationships and love lives were the forces shaping their choices.

The more women I trained, the more I saw the same patterns repeating. I saw among my coaching clients:

• Women who were highly skilled and educated that didn’t have time for career development being too busy searching for love or their partner’s attention.
• Women that felt torn between financial success and their personal life and felt confused because all their life they’ve been told that they can have it all in the same time.
• Women who started a business but felt guilty about spending less time with their families and they’ve been often criticized for that.

How can you build a business that doesn’t just make money, but also makes you happy? That was the question I became obsessed with answering. And that’s when I realized that the real obstacle wasn’t a business problem at all. It was rooted in relationships, self-worth and emotional struggles.

I couldn’t ignore this realization. If I truly wanted to help women succeed, not just professionally but in life, then I had to go deeper.

That was the beginning of my transition into relationship coaching. I immersed myself in personal development, mindset coaching and relationship psychology.

How to overcome limiting beliefs and balance life with career?

I studied how to find your passion and turn it into a career that doesn’t affect your relationship, how to overcome limiting beliefs and how to balance ambition with joy of real life. I observed, I asked questions, I engaged in deep conversations, searching for methods that could bring real, lasting transformation.

And suddenly… I saw real results in the lives of my students. Their businesses grew faster than ever before. They stopped feeling guilty about their success. And finally they built financial independence while staying true to their femininity.

What true success really means for women entrepreneurs?

I noticed that when a woman resolves the struggles in her personal life, everything else falls into place. She gains confidence, her energy returns, she starts taking action. Her business flourishes. Her life improves on every level.
I was stunned. I had never seen such profound, tangible changes before. And for the first time in my life, I felt something beyond mere satisfaction from doing my job well.

I felt a mission.

This was no longer just work. It wasn’t just a way to earn money or run a successful business. It was something far greater. It was making a real impact on people’s lives.

I finally understood that success isn’t just about numbers. It’s not about how much I earned, how many businesses I helped grow, or how many marketing strategies I implemented.

Success is that moment when you see that your work is changing someone’s life for the better.

At some point, I had to make a choice. Should I focus on my clinics? Should I continue with business coaching and focus on financial strategies? Or should I fully dedicate myself to helping women in their relationships and personal fulfillment?

I could have done everything at once. Many entrepreneurs do. I knew I had the skills and the discipline to manage it all. But did I want to live that way? Overworking myself, spreading my energy too thin, never having time for my own life?

No way!

Facing fear and risk when making a big life decision

I’m also a woman and I understood that my personal life is as important to me as for all the other women. And I didn’t want to sacrifice it.

So, I made a decision. Love and relationships are the foundation of our lives. We can pretend otherwise, but the truth is, if we are unhappy in love, every other area of life suffers. That is the core of our being, especially when it comes to feminine energy.

I left business coaching behind and dedicated myself entirely to what I loved most: helping women build fulfilling relationships.

Of course, I was scared. Every big change comes with risk. Would I be able to earn a living from this? Would clients come? Would I make it? Those questions used to awaken me at night and terrify me. I was leaving very profitable business with an established position on the market. I was known in the beauty business industry, I didn’t have to fight for clients. By changing the profile of my business, I was literally starting from scratch. I was risking everything.

The rewards of following your passion and intuition

Would it have been easier to stay in my comfort zone? Of course. But I trusted my intuition and calling of my heart. Today, I know that it was the best decision I ever made.

Not only did I not lose financial stability, but on the contrary, my income grew. More importantly, every single day, I feel that my work has meaning. That I am doing something that not only sustains me but also truly transforms the lives of women. That’s priceless. And yes, I’m happy.

I no longer define myself as just a coach. Nor do I see myself as a traditional therapist.

I integrate knowledge from multiple disciplines – coaching, psychology, NLP and personal development methods. I don’t limit myself to a single approach. I draw from everything that works, everything that brings real change.

Because at the end of the day, results are what matter. So, every time I have doubts, I make a short checkup:

• Are my clients regaining control over their lives?
• Are they breaking free from toxic patterns in love?
• Are they learning to build relationships that empower them instead of draining them?

If the answer is yes, then I know I am doing exactly what I was meant to do.

And that’s my story.

The biggest fears women face when building a business

Today, I have no doubts. I am exactly where I am meant to be.

But I also know that many women haven’t been as lucky as I have. That on one hand, they want to make a change, to build the career of their dreams, but on the other, they’re afraid that if they choose themselves, they’ll lose something important. Maybe time with their family. Maybe financial stability. Maybe a part of themselves.

And also, they constantly fear. I’ve seen this fear repeat itself again and again among women entrepreneurs. Some worry about being judged for prioritizing their business. Others fear they will lose their femininity if they focus too much on career success. These doubts often stop women from taking the first step toward success.

You can build a business and still live a fulfilling life as a woman

After years of my own experiences and working with thousands of women, I can say one thing for certain: you don’t have to choose. You can achieve professional success and still have a beautiful, fulfilling life as a woman. You can make great money, build the business of your dreams, and still have time for your partner, be a wonderful mother, embrace your femininity and truly enjoy each day.

What I want women to know is this: building a successful business doesn’t mean sacrificing love, family or happiness. With the right mindset, tools and support, you can create a business that thrives while living a life that feels balanced, feminine and whole. And that is the kind of success that lasts.

I didn’t stop at building my own business. Over the years, I expanded, tested, failed, succeeded and refined every part of my professional life. What started small grew into something much larger: a platform for real transformation.

Today, I continue to develop not only as an entrepreneur but also academically. I study psychology to deepen my understanding of human behavior, motivation and relationships, so that the tools I teach are not just inspirational but also rooted in science. Every month I attend some course that level-up my skills. I also developed my own methods based on science and data. And most importantly, while I do all this, I have happy and fulfilling personal life.

From successful entrepreneur to founder of a coaching school

I never stop growing. The more I worked with women, the more I saw the need for a structured system that could be taught and replicated. Sharing my experience one-on-one was powerful, but not enough. That is why I founded my own school for coaches, based entirely on my original methods. Training new coaches became one of the most meaningful parts of my career. It allowed me to pass on practical tools, proven strategies and a vision of coaching that respects both professionalism and femininity. Watching my students grow into confident experts who help other women succeed confirmed to me that this was the right direction.

Balancing work, femininity and building a business you love

What excites me most is that the knowledge I gathered over the years is no longer limited to me. Through teaching, writing and speaking, I can multiply my impact. Every woman who learns from me carries that knowledge forward, creating a ripple effect in her own community. This is the idea behind my eBook Boss Babe Rising: Build Your Empire Without Sacrificing Your Feminine Identity. Inside I break down exactly how to find your passion, how to organize yourself and how to become a true businesswoman while staying in tune with your feminine nature.

Disclaimer

Every article in the Library is prepared with the highest level of diligence. I draw on my professional experience as a relationship coach, cross-check every claim with credible academic sources and review relevant scientific studies to ensure accuracy. I also make efforts to keep each article up to date, revising it whenever I find new evidence or updated research. My commitment is to provide readers with information that is both trustworthy and relevant, so you can read article based on facts, not trends. However, the rapid pace of scientific and clinical developments means that it may not reflect the most current knowledge available.  Please also keep in mind, that reading an article does not constitute professional advice, as every situation is unique. If you are facing a serious personal challenge, you should seek guidance from a qualified professional.